I believe women who find themselves in an unplanned pregnancy do not really want to get abortions. Unfortunately, many of them who are not victims of rape or incest or with a serious medical conditions feel compelled to do so because of poverty, abusive conditions in their families or relationships, fear of losing college scholarships, and other important considerations. These women don't need to hear "You should have ..." They need food, shelter, healthcare. They don't need to see horrifying photos of aborted fetuses; they need help to go to school, train for and find a decent job, and obtain dependable childcare. But even before that, girls and young women need to be treated equally ALL of their lives. If they want to play baseball, for instance, no parent, coach, athletic director, or league official should keep them away. If they want to be scientists, they don't need to hear that women don't do those things. Also, preventive birth control (which IS effective when used properly) should be available at no cost or very little cost to any young woman or man who wishes to use it. In addition, rape and incest need to be treated as major crimes and women treated (by default) as dependable witnesses no matter what the circumstances. Part of the perpetrators' punishment should be paying toward the care of the women they violated and any children (without knowing where they are). Finally, women need totally equal treatment in the workplace: pay, benefits, and opportunities.